Friday, September 27, 2013

The Real Solution Scares Politicians

     Here in New York City, Mayor Bloomberg’s “stop and frisk,” policy (government sanctioned racial profiling) was the main topic the mayoral candidates addressed during the primaries in September 2013.  It was a diversion from the real problem in New York City and in America.  The Real Problem: The national unemployment rate for August 2013 was 7.3%.  For whites it was 6.4% and for African Americans it was 13.0%.  In 1954 the unemployment rate for whites was 5%.  For African Americans it was 9.9%.  For at least the past 59 years the unemployment rate for African Americans has been double that of whites.  [FYI: August 2013 unemployment rate for Hispanics 9.3%, Asians 5.1%.]
     The unemployment rate for the “stop & frisk” target group (African American males ages 18 to 29) today is about 20.9%.  If we lower the unemployment rate for that group to the whites’ rate of 6.4%, there would be no one to stop and frisk.  The target group would be at work instead on the street.
     The unemployment rate gap in America has to close.  (See Black Unemployment Rate Consistently Twice That of Whites)  Federal, state and local governments need to commit to that.  What we hear from politicians is, “We’ve got to create more jobs.”  Something needs to be done about access to the jobs.  Whites control access to most jobs.  White men dominate almost every industry.  As long as that is the case, whites will continue to have the lower unemployment rate and the higher paying jobs.  Magazines like Ebony and Black Enterprise make it seem as though things are better than they are.  They do encourage entrepreneurship and that is the best direction.
     On November 30, 2009, the New York Times published an article, In Job Hunt, College Degree Can’t Close Racial Gap,” saying that race remains an obstacle in the job market.  Having an MBA from a top school doesn’t help your chances if you are African American.  That has got to change and politicians need to step up and show they have the backbone to make some bold recommendations.  But, Democrats are too afraid to tackle this problem.  Republicans are too ______.  They want to keep “stop& amp; frisk,” in New York City.  It feeds the prison industrial complex.
     A white friend of mine told me what he witnessed several years ago.  A young Black man walked through the doors where he worked, college degree and resume in hand, looking for a job.  This was a small Wall Street stock brokerage firm in Manhattan.  My friend told the young man to have a seat and summoned his boss.  The boss talked with the young man right there in the lobby and had him complete a job application.  My friend overheard his boss tell the young man there weren’t any openings but he will keep his application and resume on file.  “You’re just the kind of person we’d like to have here,” the boss was heard so say.  When the young man left, the boss tossed the application and resume into the waste basket and went back to his office.
     The Black job seeker did not know that he had just been discriminated against nor how many times that happened to him during his job search.  Just as we, African Americans, were told by our parents that we have to be ten times better than the white guy in order to be considered equal, we have to apply for ten times as many jobs in order to get one serious consideration.
     I recently sent a letter to President Barack Obama, citing the statistics I mentioned and asked what he intends to do to close the gap.  I know he won’t do anything.  Unfortunately, the Conservative Tea Party Republicans are waiting to crucify President Obama as soon as he even hints that he wants to do something that specifically helps African Americans.   He knows that.  We know that.  He needs to risk it.
     To my knowledge no one has ever worked on the real solutionClose the Unemployment Rate Gap.  I have never heard an African American politician or any politician say anything about it.  Will you step up the plate or ask your local, state and federal legislative representatives to read this and take action?  <>

 

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Tithing or Proportional Giving?


Several years ago Man in the Mirror Inc., an outstanding Christian men’s ministry resource (www.maninthemirror.org), presented a weekly Bible Study Series called, The Six Habits of Spiritually Happy Men.  Habit number five is, “Spiritually Happy Men Tithe.”  I showed the video of that Bible study at our church’s then Wednesday morning Men’s Bible Study.  Subsequently, I developed a workshop for men and women based on that Bible study.  The Bible study answered the Tithing versus Proportional Giving question for me.

Tithing (giving a tenth of your gross income) was born in the Old Testament in Genesis 14:20 niv, “Then Abram gave him a tenth of everything.”  It was done voluntarily as a tribute.  Later, in Levitical law tithing becomes a tax.  In the Bible there are – Moral Laws, Judicial Laws and Ceremonial Laws.  Tithing in the case of Abram and Melchizedek is ceremonial.

Well-meaning Christians have developed excuses for not tithing.  They don’t want to give as much as ten percent of their gross income to their church, so they come up with excuses like:
  • The New Testament doesn’t specifically mention tithing
  • Tithing is only an Old Testament idea
  • Proportional Giving is the New Testament’s replacement for tithing
  • Tithing is any amount you choose
The Old Testament is part of the whole Bible.  If the New Testament doesn’t specifically eliminate or supersede tithing then tithing remains.  We read in Malachi 3:6 niv, “I the Lord do not change.”  God is the same in both testaments.  Tithing is mentioned in the New Testament.  Look at Matthew 23:23.  Jesus says to the Scribes and Pharisees, (nkjv), “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!  For you pay tithe of mint and anise and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith.  These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone.”  See also Luke 11:42, Luke 18:12, Hebrews 7:4,5,6,7,8&9.  Some translations use tenth instead of tithe.

So, tithing is mentioned in the New Testament.  It’s mentioned by Jesus and the writer of Hebrews.  Talking to the Pharisees Jesus says tithing is something they ought to have done (… These you ought to have done …).  In other words, Jesus acknowledges that tithing is the expected and right thing to do.  In the Old Testament what was once ceremony became law.  In the New Testament it’s a matter of the heart.  In 1 Corinthians 16:2, Paul says to give an amount in keeping with (proportion to) your income.  In Deuteronomy 16:17 niv, we read, “Each of you must bring a gift in proportion to the way the Lord your God has blessed you.”  So, not only is tithing mentioned in the Old and New Testament but proportional giving is mentioned in the both Testaments.  If God blesses you with $100,000 today then the size of the proportion is $10,000 (10%).  Proportional giving is a principle.  Tithing is an example of what the proportion should to be!  Proportional proponents never suggest more than ten percent.  It’s always less.  Less than ten percent is not a tithe.

New Testament standards are higher than Old Testament standards:
Old Testament – You shall not commit murder.
New Testament – Jesus says anger is the same as murder.
Old Testament – You shall not commit adultery.
New Testament – Jesus says looking lustfully is adultery.
Old Testament – Love your neighbor, hate your enemies.
New Testament – Jesus says to love your enemies, too.

The New Testament proportion should be at least as great as it is in the Old Testament.  The Bible doesn’t say that specifically.  As Patrick Morley said in his Bible study on the subject, “The Holy Spirit will have to speak to your heart on this.”

If God is the same in both testaments, then the amount you should give to God in worship remains the same.  What changes is the reason you do it.  In the Old Testament it’s the law or a tax … an obligation.  In the New Testament it’s a tribute done from the heart .... "I love You Lord."

Most people can easily tithe but are not moved or motivated to do it.  Here’s the Big Idea from the Man in the Mirror Bible Study: If you are not tithing then your overhead is too big or your heart for God is too small.  Or it’s a combination of both.  Churches where most of the members tithe have no financial woes.

There are those who are moved to tithe for what I think are wrong reasons.  They do it in order to receive more money.  That’s what the Pulpit Pimps (prosperity preachers) preach.  They use the Bible to help them prove that God wants to give you lots of money and material possessions.  Blessings come in many forms.  God doesn’t want you to be rich.  God doesn’t want you to be poor.  He wants you to be His.

I had the opportunity to participate in a workshop on church growth hosted by the Mid-Atlantic Presbyterian Men at Churchville Presbyterian Church in Maryland a few years ago.  Conducting the workshop was The Rev. Dr. Edward A. White of the Alban Institute, Bethesda, MD.  One of his questionnaires had fifteen items a church should expect from its members.  Seven of the fifteen, he said, help determine if you have a healthy, growing congregation.  Tithing headed the list of seven he said were essential.  Pledging is a Fall activity for many churches.  You may wish to prayerfully consider tithing this time.  Below are a couple of suggestions on how to get started.

I was leading a Bible study during a Prayer meeting & Bible study at our church, when a woman asked me if she should tithe from her gross or net income.  She said a television preacher said to tithe from your net, after tax income.  That might prompt the question, “Does God get paid first or does the government get paid first?” God is at the center of your life not part of a list.  Tithe from your gross income.

How do you get started if you can’t make an immediate leap to ten percent?  After your prayer for discernment here are two methods you can try:

  1. Periodic Increase.  Start with quarterly – Tithe the first Sunday in January, April, July and October.  Then the first Sunday every other month.  Then the First Sunday each month.  The every other week.  Eventually get it to every week.
  2. Gradually Increase your percentage each week.  If you calculate your tithe to be three percent right now, increase it to four percent.  The goal is to get to ten percent.
Try a combination of both methods or create your own.

Don’t count other money given to the church as part of your tithe.  Other money is your offering (Deacons fund, building fund, etc.).  Give Tithes and Offering.

If you would like a workshop on this topic for your church or organization send an email to me at kingdomspeaking@gmail.com with “Tithe” in the subject line.  I also have a financial planning workshop called, “Wisdom and God’s Money,” in which I suggest we learn to live on 80% of our income ... save or invest 10% and tithe 10%.  This workshop has been very well received.

Share this article with your pastor, stewardship chairperson and members of your worship community.  Please comment on any of the articles you read in Kingdom Speaking.  Just click on "Comment" below the end of the blog article.  Thank you and God bless you!  <><

Saturday, December 29, 2012

NOBODY PRAYED FOR HIM

Learning from Terrible Tragedies like Newtown CT
     Adam Lanza killed twenty-eight people on December 14, 2012 in Newtown CT.  He murdered his own mother at home.  He murdered twenty children and six adults at Sandy Hook Elementary School.  He committed suicide.  There was an immediate rush to answer the question, “Why?”  “Why did this happen?”  “Why did this happen to these innocent young children?  “Where does the blame lie?”  “Is it mental illness?”  “Do we blame it on guns?”  We all feel powerless because we don’t know why.  If we knew why, we could prevent something like this from happening again.  It has happened too many times since the Columbine High School Massacre on April 20, 1999.
     Had Adam Lanza not committed suicide would the people of Connecticut be angry that earlier in 2012 they voted to abolished the death penalty?
     People flocked to churches the Sunday following the tragedy.  The clergy in Newtown, CT must have been deluged with questions about why this happened.  Someone came up with what is called “The T-Shirt of the Year” now circulating around social media.  The t-shirt reads, “Dear God, Why do you allow so much violence in our schools.  Signed, A Concerned Student.  Dear Concerned Student, I’m not allowed in schools.  God.”  But, tragedies have happened in churches too where God is not only allow … is worshiped.  So taking praying out of the schools isn’t to blame.
     But I believe prayer or the lack of it plays a role in what does and doesn’t happen in our world.  I think absence of prayer played a role in the life of Adam Lanza and subsequently all of our lives.  We read in the Book of Job 42:8b, “My servant Job will pray for you and I will accept his prayer and not deal with you according to your folly.” (niv)
     We often hear people talk about their prayer life and how they prayed and made promises to God that they would change their ways.  “Lord, I’m going to give up drinking.”  “Lord, I’m going to stop doing this or that.”  “Lord, I going to church every Sunday from now on.”  And on it goes.  Does this sound familiar?  You’ve either said it or heard it said.  Did you ever stop to consider that somebody else was praying for you?  Bill Withers wrote and recorded the song, “Grandma’s Hands.”  Somebody needs to write about grandma’s prayers.  Many grandmothers have prayed for their grandchildren and God accepted grandma's prayers and not dealt with the grandchildren according to their folly.
     Some men in church whose marriage and family life is going well will tell you, “We are a family that prays together and worships together.”  And on it goes.  I once heard a preacher say, “Marriages would be a lot stronger and last a lot longer if husbands prayed for their wives as often as wives prayed for their husbands.”  In other words, brother, did you ever stop and think that before you became so churchy your wife had been praying for you for a long time?
     After meditating on that Bible passage from Job I am certain that others have prayed for me.  My father, my mother, my wife, my pastor and my friends prayed for me and God accepted their prayers and did not deal with me according to my folly.
     This twenty year old murderer, Adam Lanza, probably had no one praying for him … caring about him … developing a loving relationship with him.  Did he have positive male role models?  Did he have positive male relationships in his life?  I don’t believe so.  Positive male role models and wholesome male relationships are essential for young men to grow into manhood.  It was reported that Adam hadn’t spoken to his own father or brother in two years. “He was a loner,” folks said.
     I focus on male relationships because, have you noticed, women and girls don’t do this?  I don't know of any exceptions and pray there won't be any.
     As one who believes in the efficacy of prayer I’m convinced that the lack of prayer also contributed to this tragedy and others like it.  Nobody prayed for him.  Nobody thought about him.  Nobody reached out to him.  Everyone who knew him left him alone … ignored him … cared only for themselves.  Everyone who knew Adam Lanza was himself or herself mentally ill to some degree.  Mental illness has always existed.  The way we regard and treat mental illness and the mentally ill has changed.  We are too concerned about being politically correct.
     We can try to blame it on guns.  I played with cap pistols when I was a kid.  My folks bought me the Roy Rogers six shooters.  I think I was eleven years old when I shook Hopalong Cassidy’s hand in front of the Daily News building in New York City and received a cardboard replica of his six shooter.  My grandson, Zair Emmanuel Johnson, pictured with me above will probably never play with guns.
     Guns have existed for a long time.  The proliferation of guns has changed.  The types of guns have changed.  Demonstrations of their use have changed.  It seems the availability of guns does play a role in these types of tragedies.  The company that sells the type of weapon used by Lanza, advertises it as a “... Gun for a Man’s Man in an Era of Depleting Testosterone.”  In other words, you are not a real man unless you own one of these.  The second amendment to the United States Constitution says I have the right to bear arms.  Do I have a need to bear arms?  The answer for me is no!
     Psychologists tell us this type of event will happen again.  We don’t want another Sandy Hook, Columbine, Virginia Tech, etc.  There are other men (I hope not women) out there like Adam Lanza or Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris of the Columbine Massacre.  They may or may not be easy to spot.  Be alert.  Be concerned.  Genuinely, care about the people around you and when you suspect someone around you is “different,” pray for him daily.  Develop a relationship.  Tell him the story of Jesus.  Real men pray for others.  Somebody prayed for me.  <><

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

220th General Assembly of the PC(USA) - My First GA

      I had the privilege of attending the 220th General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church (USA). It was held in Pittsburgh, PA from June 30 through July 7, 2012. When anyone asks me about it I tell them, “It was wonderful!” And it was. The music was wonderful. The preaching was wonderful. Working for God in this, new for me, section of his vineyard was wonderful.
     I had the privilege of representing the Presbytery of New York City as a Ruling Elder Commissioner. There were eight of us from New York City who got to sit in the inner sanctum … holy of holies … inside the dark blue curtain on the Assembly floor. We were six commissioners … Teaching Elders Jose Gonzalez-Colon, Lonnie Bryant, and Mieke Vandersall … Ruling Elders David Ofori, Annie Rawlings, and me … one Young Adult Advisory Delegate Joshua Narcisse and one Theological Student Advisory Delegate Ruling Elder Deborah Mahaney.
     Every committee meeting, plenary session and worship service began with the reading of the scripture, Isaiah 40:38-31.
     Six hundred eighty-eight commissioners and two hundred thirty-one advisory delegates were assigned to twenty-one committees which dealt with one hundred twelve overtures of presbyteries and synods included in the approximately eight hundred items of business the assembly had to deal with.
     When the assembly convened in Plenary on Saturday evening, our first order of business was to elect the Moderators of the 220th General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) who is The Reverend Dr. Neal D. Presa from nearby Elizabeth Presbytery across the Hudson River in New Jersey.
     We did have the unfortunately incident of the moderator’s choice for Vice Moderator, the Reverend Tara Spuhler McCabe, chose to resign amid some controversy surrounding a same-gender wedding in Washington, DC. Personally, I think it is unfortunate that some Presbyterians can’t disagree without being nasty … can’t act more like Jesus. Some of us walk around with rocks in our pockets ready to condemn. The new moderator reluctantly accepted her resignation and named The Reverend Tom Trinidad of the Pueblo Presbytery as the new Vice Moderator.
     In trying to organize a Presbytery of New York City delegation dinner on July 4th Interim Executive Presbyter Tony De La Rosa guessed there may have been at least thirty people from the Presbytery of NYC.
     On Sunday morning twenty-nine Presbyterian congregations invited GA attendees to worship with them. There was luxury bus service to take us to churches not in walking distance of the convention center and hotel area. Approximately sixty of us went to Bidwell Presbyterian Church. While there The Reverend James Foster Reese told everyone that Bidwell is the place of his very first sermon over sixty years ago.
     I was assigned to the Committee on Confessions of the Church. Six members of the committee brought a minority report to the Assembly floor after it failed as a substitute motion in committee. I spoke against in committee and on the floor of the assembly. Speaking at a microphone on the floor of the General Assembly is something I thought I would never do. Never say never.
     What impressed me was the passion and sincerity of the commissioners and advocacy groups. There weren’t the angry outbursts I expected. As far as I could see people treated each other with courtesy and respect. The person who led the group bringing Minority Report came to me later and asked that I forgive her if her action hurt me in any way. We hugged.
     The committee report that took used up the most time was the Committee on Civil Union and Marriage Issues. Discussion on Friday, July 6th lasted from 1:30 PM through 8:30 PM with time out for dinner. There were Minority Reports, amendments, and so on. The Assembly voted to neither re-affirm nor change the denomination’s definition of marriage as “a civil contract between a man and a woman.” The Assembly approved a proposal generated from within the Assembly Committee on Civil Union and Marriage Issues calling for two years of “serious study and discernment” regarding Christian marriage.
     Earlier that day, Interim Executive Presbyter of the Presbytery of New York City, Tony De La Rosa, had the honor of being the only Ruling Elder to preach at one of the worship services.
     Working on the committees and in plenary was really hard but rewarding work. We all met new friends on the committees and sitting near us on the assembly floor. On the final evening, Friday, July 6 our work in plenary didn’t end until 1:30 in the morning. Some committees still had to meet after that. Trying to keep our eyes open and attention focused some were singing praises to Jehovah Java while others want to bow to El Shut Eye.
     What greatly impressed me was the Young Adult Advisory Delegates. They give me hope for the future of the church. Although they were all over the church political landscape they showed the older adults out to live together in harmony and how to work today and worship together without condemning each other.
     There were two other things that greatly impressed me. One was the COLA people … Committee On Local Arrangements. Members of the congregations and staff in Pittsburgh volunteered their time to be present everywhere to help anyone attending GA220. Wearing bright yellow vests with the PCUSA symbol on the back they were at the airport, in the hotel lobbies (and the GA used more than seven hotels), they were on the streets near the convention center, they were all over the convention center. You could ask them anything and they would find a way to help you. The other thing that greatly impressed me was the people in the red t-shirts … the back of the t-shirts read, “We are praying for Yinz.” Yinz in Pittsburgheese means the same as Ya’ll. If you needed prayer you just have to walk up to one of them and they would pray with you or take you to a convenient prayer room for prayer.
     Someone asked me if I would go again. The answer is yes. As a matter of fact my wife and I plan to attend the 221st General Assembly in Detroit, MI in 2014. And yes I would recommend it. Don’t put it on your bucket list. Put it on your Must Do List.
     Just as every session was opened with scripture from Isaiah, every sermon used the same sermon text, Mark 2:1-12. It’s the familiar story about the men who dug a hole in the roof to let down the crippled man to be healed by Jesus. The text ends with Jesus saying, “I say to you, stand up, take up your mat and of to your home.” And he stood up, and immediately took the mat and went out before all of them; so that they were all amazed and glorified God saying, “We have never seen anything like this!”
     And I say of the 220th General Assembly, I have never seen anything like this. It was wonderful! Praise God. <><

Thursday, June 2, 2011

FOOLS NEVER RAISE THEIR THOUGHTS SO HIGH: The Wisdom and Wit of a Window Washer

This new biography details the life of a dedicated father of four and the lasting effect his lessons have had


BRONX, NY– A 20-year span in the life of a devoted father raising a family in Harlem and the Bronx, NY, in the mid-20th century is immortalized by his son in Fools Never Raise Their Thoughts So High: The Wisdom and Wit of a Window Washer (published by AuthorHouse), the touching new collection of memoirs by Lloyd R. Johnson that pay tribute to the memory of his father, Robert Lloyd Johnson.

“Reflecting on life with my father, as I grew from infancy into adulthood, is relaxing, amusing and stress relieving,” Johnson writes.  “There are times when I’m brought to tears, times when I laugh out loud, and other times when all I can say is, ‘Wow! He really had insight.’”  Fools Never Raise Their Thoughts So High takes its title from a line in the Isaac Watts hymn, “Sweet Is The Work, My God, My King”, that Robert would often quote.  His frequent recitation of poems, quotes and other literary works were always peppered throughout his conversation, imparting his appreciation for the arts in his children.

Beginning in the 1940s and chronicling the subsequent 20 years, a bygone era of New York City is brought back to life in the pages of Fools Never Raise Their Thoughts So High.  Robert was a window washer in midtown Manhattan, although Johnson is quick to point out that the job didn’t define who he was.

Rather than focus on Robert’s professional life, Johnson instead chooses to share the more intimate details of a father who was deeply devoted to instilling values and morals in his children, all while maintaining a positive attitude and showing the benefits of laughter and lightheartedness.  Johnson recalls anecdotes that serve as a testament to his father’s sense of humor and wisdom about the world.

“When people talk about my father, there is always a smile on their face,” Johnson writes.  “I sincerely hope you can say the same about your Dad and the men who influenced your life.”  Fathers everywhere can learn a lesson or two from Robert Lloyd Johnson and take inspiration from his loving, empowering parenting style.  Discover more in Fools Never Raise Their Thoughts So High.

About the Author

Author LLOYD R. JOHNSON
Lloyd R. Johnson was born in Harlem Hospital and is the oldest of four children.  He has contributed articles to business, financial and Christian publications and is retired from a career selling insurance, mutual funds and providing financial planning services.  He plans to write more in the future and currently resides in the Bronx with his wife, Dora, where they are active in their church and other Christian ministries.  For more information, please visit his website www.LloydRJohnson.com created especially for the launch of this book.


You can order copies of FOOLS NEVER RAISE THEIR THOUGHTS SO HIGH from any of the following online book providers:


www.huemanbookstore.com

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Merry Christmas 2010


To all of our Family and Friends:
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

We sincerely hope Christmas brought tidings of comfort and joy to you and those you love.  We pray that 2011 will be marked with health and happiness.

On Christmas Raymond and Nikki announced they are expecting a child June 30, 2011.

On New Year’s Eve we enjoyed the Alvin Ailey American Dance Company accompanied by the gospel/folk singing group Sweet Honey in the Rock.  Wow!

Then we attended the Watch Night Service at our church which was tremendously joyous and spirit filled … best way to bring in the New Year.

We extend warm wished to all whether you celebrate Christmas or not.  We value our relationship with you.

We love you and God bless you,

Lloyd & Dora Johnson

The photo is from our family cruise August 30 through September 2, 2010.  Across the top are our daughter-Ericka Blake, Dora’s sister-Louise Robinson of “Sweet Honey in the Rock,” grandson-Ameer Blake, son-Raymond Johnson, daughter-in-law-Nikki Johnson (they were married February 22, 2010), DORA, Dora’s mother-Vivian Robinson look sharp as always, below are four more grandchildren Na’im Blake (red shirt), Bilal Blake (shades), Nadirah Blake with Nadjah Blake just below her and LLOYD kneeling in front.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

BACK ON THE BLOCK

Wow! I can’t believe it is August 2010 and I haven’t submitted an article on my own blog since January. Quite a few exciting things have occurred since then. This past Spring I completed all of the required courses to become a Commissioned Lay Pastor. July 28th was the one year anniversary of my heart attack. My son Raymond got married in February. My wife, Dora retired July 9th. Kairos Outside NYC had its Weekend #2 in July. I finished writing a book. And more.
As far as becoming a Lay Pastor is concerned, I presented my Statement of Faith to the Committee on Preparation for Lay Ministry. Remaining requirements are an examination by that committee, examinations by the Committee on Ministry and by the Presbytery. Then I can be commissioned to pastor one of our congregations or assist a pastor in a congregation.

The heart attack anniversary passed uneventful. Praise God! I’ve been watching my diet (haven’t tasted ice cream). I go for a brisk walk most mornings and Dora and I recently joined Silver Sneakers.

Raymond and Nikki’s wedding was televised on TLC’s “Four Weddings.” (Wedding Pictures) The wedding was held at Emmanuel Baptist Church, Brooklyn, NY on February 22, 2010 and was televised on TLC in March. My new daughter-in-law was competing with three other brides. They had to vote on each other’s wedding in several categories. We won. That is, Ray and Nikki won. They won a week at an all-inclusive resort on Grand Cayman Island in the Caribbean (More wedding pictures).

* Hats off to Raymond for another accomplishment ... Raymond graduated from the Wurzweiler School of Social Work at Yeshiva University with his Master of Social Work degree on July 22, 2010.  Congratulations Raymond S. Johnson, MSW.

Dora retired July 9th. It’s taking some getting used to by both of us. I’ve been retired for five and a half years. We have been busy. There’s no rocking in the rocking chair around here.

Both of us served on the Kairos Prison Ministry Weekend, Kairos Outside NYC #2. That was the weekend of July 16, 17 & 18, 2010. Dora was music director for the weekend. KO NYC is a Christian ministry for women whose lives have been impacted by incarceration. The ministry team consists of about thirty women and 6 men. The men prepare and serve the meals and pray. There are approximately twenty-four guests on the weekend. Several women on the ministry team give talks and meditations on various topics. The men are in another room praying during the talks.

We attended the Dyson Family Reunion in Petersburg, VA the weekend of July 23, 24 & 25, 2010. That's Dora's family on her mother's side. Her mother, Vivian (Mary Vivian Dyson Robinson), is the matriarch of the family and her uncle, Joseph Dyson, is the patriarch. It was a wonderful gathering. Family members came from all over the country and Toronto, Canada.

I finished a book I’ve been writing for over a year. I finally sent the manuscript to a publisher two weeks ago. The book is a humorous memoir about my father. It’s not very long and I hope a few folks will enjoy it. Now I can get back to the blog and other things.

Watch for the book later this year. I’ll send out announcements via email, snail mail, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn. Can I have a book signing at your place? I told the publisher that I was originally looking to present something for family members to enjoy. I also wanted to create something for our children and grandchildren to cherish. If there is even a modicum of commercial success, I’ll be greatly surprised. What’s the title? It might change, but right now it’s, “Fools Never Raise Their Thoughts So High.” That’ll keep you guessing for a while.

It’s good to be back on the block. Thank you for checking in and God bless you. <>
*Added 8/15/2010